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5 Ways to Help Someone Who Has Lost Their Contents in a Flood

There are many people hurting over the impact of these floods in 2022. Here are 5 practical ways you can help someone who has lost their contents in a flood.

Losing your belongings in a flood is a traumatic experience.

While I personally haven’t been through the experience, I have assisted people who have.

It takes years of hard work to acquire our furniture, appliances, clothes, shoes, accessories, toys, books, home furnishings and all the ‘little things” that define our style and make our house our home.

And yes, things are just things, but things can hold value to us with sentimental memories or the practicality of making life easier and more enjoyable.

There are plenty of ways to assist someone who has been affected by the floods, but I’ve come up with 5 practical ways you can help someone who has lost their contents in a flood.

Not everyone has or can afford insurance and even if they do have it, sometimes limits or underinsurance can be a possibility.

Helping practically doesn’t mean decluttering your home of old and broken belongings in the hope a flood affected person will be grateful for them. Give dignity in allowing victims to make their own choices as they slowly acquire items to recover from the tragedy of losing all they own.

5 Ways to Help Someone Who Has Lost Their Contents in a Flood

5 ways to help someone who has lost their contents in a flood

 

1. Help salvage what can be salvaged

The clean up after a flood is the most emotional and strenuous time after the event. The mess is putrid and it can be an overwhelming task to remove belongings impacted by black water.

Sadly, not everything can be salvageable when sewerage has travelled through the home.

But if it’s been clean, storm water or items have been stored high, they may be salvageable. Check first for mould even if the items haven’t been drenched in water. If it’s taken time for water to recede, mould can permanently damage some items making them unsalvageable.

Assist with providing storage containers where salvageable items can be placed and removed from site for cleaning. The items can be washed and disinfected or machine washed if it’s linen or clothing items. This practical way of helping involves time, but can be a blessing to those who don’t have the capacity to clean while removing debris from their property.

2. Pay an excess

Paying an excess for someone who has insurance allows the victim to utilise the maximum amount they can claim for on their insurance. For those that don’t have insurance, donating cash directly to the person can assist them in purchasing immediate supplies.

Go Fund Me has plenty of needs where your cash donation can make a difference to a flood affected person’s life.

3. Donate vouchers rather than goods

Gift vouchers allow the flood impacted person to choose items they need and would use. If you know the person has a favourite store they purchased their clothes from prior to the event, buy a gift voucher to that store. It shows the person you care personally for them and gives the victim dignity in making their own decisions on what they do with what’s been given.

4. Offer your house as a delivery location to store new contents

For some victims, they may not be able to accept deliveries of contents items at their temporary accommodation or it may be difficult to store while repairs take place at their home.

If you have spare space in the garage or a room in your home, offer your address as a place for deliveries for online purchases. COVID19 has impacted supplies considerably, so not a lot of items can be bought from a brick and mortar store; some may need to be ordered and purchased online requiring a safe and easily accessible delivery address. Could your property have room to accept these deliveries while a flood victim gets back on their feet?

5. Answer calls for help

Facebook can be a great way to find needs where donations are wanted and very much needed. All of us can have double up appliances, clothes with tags, books that are as good as new which can be donated to shelters or education facilities in need of donations to replenish items lost.

I know of one kindergarten in South West Brisbane collecting new pre-owned books to send to a Kindergarten that lost all their books from the floods. We have bookshelves of new books my girls can go through that can be delivered to assist.

It can be overwhelming to meet needs of those impacted by the floods, but one action can help someone and this has the potential to help many people.

No action is too little. It can mean so much to someone who may be in despair due to floods.

Note: Header image purchased is the after effects of Hurricane Harvey, not related to the floods in QLD and NSW.

Make Your Own Pom Pom Christmas Earrings

Make your own pom pom Christmas earrings using pom poms and silver hoops! An affordable gift idea or simply make for yourself to wear this Christmas!

While scrolling the internet for Christmas gifts, I came across some Pom Pom hoop earrings which were right up my alley! As you know, I love a statement earring and pom poms! They were the perfect earrings for me.

But they were from overseas and the cost to purchase and pay for shipping was more than I was prepared to pay.

I decided I’d try and make a pair and thought I’d share how it went.

Materials for Pom Pom Christmas Earrings

I was hoping to get Sterling Silver hoops from Kmart, but they didn’t have any in stock. So I went standard silver plated hoops instead. Choose the cylindrical style as the flatter style of hoops are difficult to thread the pom poms on.

The pom poms were in the craft/scrapbooking section of Kmart. You can always make your own pom poms too.

materials to make your own Christmas Pom Pom Earrings

Instructions

Simply work out how you want your pom poms to look on the earring and thread them on. I found the cylindrical hoops easier to thread on than the flat hoops.

thread pom poms onto silver hoops to make Christmas earrings

When threading the pom poms, you need to find the middle part of the pom pom to thread through.

Also, think about bringing the most contrasting pom poms to the front towards your face. If you have long dark hair, put the darkest pom poms towards the back of the hoop. I made the dark green pom pom closest to my hair so the red and pink pom poms stand out more.

bec wearing Christmas Pom Pom earrings

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10 Things to Try Before Emotional Shopping

Looking for ways to control your emotional shopping? Try these tips to get your dopamine hit without it hurting your back pocket or cluttering your wardrobe.

If you watched the recent episode of Space Invaders on Saturday night, you would have seen the effects of emotional shopping.

There were racks and racks overflowing with clothes. I don’t think Peter Walsh could work out where the wardrobe started or ended! And the under drawer compartment of the bed was packed to the brim with shoes and handbags.

The overall income from the donations once all the belongings were culled was under $20,000!

I found myself relating to this beautiful lady’s story of going shopping when she needed a pick-me-up. It had become a go-to habit – a distraction if you will –  to help her forget how she felt her life should have been.

We always think about the financial cost to emotional shopping, but we never consider the costs to our wellbeing and environment. The clutter that soon forms from overconsumption soon affects our homes.

If you do suffer from emotional shopping, it’s important to find what the trigger is and the underlying cause.

Emotional spending is often a cover to something that needs to be brought to the surface and dealt with. It can also be triggered from inadequacy. What is making you feel this way and why? I found this article from Mum’s Savvy Savings really helpful in ways to curb emotional spending.

10 things to try before emotional shopping

Starting a new habit to curb emotional shopping is something you could adopt.

Here are some things to try before you shop with your emotions

  • Catch up with a friend in person
  • Read an Uplifting Book
  • Listen to a podcast to distract your mind from shopping
  • Reach out to a friend and go for a walk
  • Head to the gym
  • Sit outside in the sunshine with your feet on the grass
  • Do something creative – like painting, drawing, singing…
  • Find a new hobby
  • Listen to music
  • Book a treatment – massage/facial/pedicure

If emotional shopping is something you partake in every once in a while, only you can determine if it is having a detrimental effect on you.

Regular donations or selling pieces when you buy something new can ensure you maintain your wardrobe efficiently.

Turning the hangers the opposite way and seeing what pieces you haven’t worn in a while is also another way to curate your clothes.

Do you have any tips to curb emotional shopping? How do you distract yourself if you need a pick-me-up?

Finding Clothes for Tween Girls

Finding clothes for tween girls can be a hard task. Here are some tips and tricks after experiencing this season with my tween. 

I’m in the challenging stage of finding clothes to fit my 10 year old daughter who will soon be taller than me!

It seems we have outgrown the limited tween kids range and now need to explore the women’s range of clothing. But it’s tricky as the clothing options are sometimes more suited to a fully developed women’s body. Sometimes the styles are just not age appropriate.

Tween Clothes Tips from Others

Be a Fun Mum has an excellent post on how to convert kids sizing to adult sizing for girls. There is also a list of clothing stores to consider for this age group. Most of the brands weren’t ideal for my tween hence why I’m sharing what has been successful for us recently.

Suger Coat It has a list of plus sized clothes for teenagers. Definitely worth a look for your tween daughter.

It can be a heart wrenching and delicate season when your daughter can’t find clothes to fit her from what is offered in the tween/teen section.

But don’t let it define her.

In fact once you’re aware the tween clothes aren’t going to work anymore, this can open up to a whole lot of other stores which would have been previously ignored.

My advice is to not talk about their body but how pieces of clothing are made and why they aren’t always sewn to suit our frame. The fault is placed on the piece of clothing and NOT on your tween daughter’s body.

Also your daughter’s greatest example for fashion is you – her mum. So stop talking down about your body and stop focusing on size.

We spent a full day at Indooroopilly Shopping Centre to try on clothes and find pieces my tween would feel comfortable in. It was an exhausting effort and not completely successful.

However a recent online shop from Ally Fashion seemed to fill in the gaps. This is why I’ve created this post because I know I’m not alone with this struggle.

There are a few tricks I’ve discovered which may help you as you navigate this season with your tween daughter.

Finding Clothes for your Tween Girl – Where to Shop

Here are a list of brands where we have found success in purchasing clothes for the tween girl age group.

  • Best and Less
  • Kmart
  • Ally Fashion
  • Dangerfield
  • Myer
  • Dotti
  • Supre
  • Jay Jays
  • H&M
  • Shein
  • Sportsgirl

I’ve also put together some outfit ideas. All tweens will have their own sense of style and how they would like to dress. They may turn their nose at these suggestions, but my tween girl didn’t so I’m taking her feedback as being on the right track.

Tips and Tricks for Tween Clothes Shopping

  • Online stores will often have a bigger range than the bricks and mortar stores. Even stores like Ally have pieces that are only available online and not instore.
  • Choose skater style skirts and dresses as the length and style should suit a tween frame.
  • Round and square neck are great cuts for tees and dresses. V-neck and cross over style dresses will often hang loosely over the chest area.
  • What looks like short shorts on a teen/ younger woman’s body, may actually be above the knee or mid thigh for your tween. Don’t completely write them off.
  • Knit shorts are great for that transition period when growth happens. The stretchy waist is comfortable when worn on the hips or waist.
  • A few longer t-shirts can be worn as they are or knotted to create a crop style. Having a few tees with length means they are appropriate for free dress days at school.
  • A denim jacket is a classic piece all tweens and teens should have as part of their wardrobe to layer over dresses in winter.
  • Always look at the returns policy when shopping online for your tween. You may need to return some items and get a refund or exchange for something different. I have found Ally and Best and Less brilliant with their returns and exchanges when I’ve purchased online.
  • Tweens and teens can be fussy about what they will wear. Get them to look at Pinterest or peruse online shops to get an idea of what their style is.
  • Tiered style dresses are on trend and can be purchased in summer and winter styles. Team with a pair of sneakers/sandals for summer and layer with tights, boots and jacket for winter.
  • Tie dye and twin sets are also big trends with this age group. Jay Jays and Sportsgirl have had these options available.
  • Kmart is great for shoes and accessories. Their feet can grow so quickly, so I usually will invest in a pair of sandals and flat sneakers to be worn with outfits.
  • If your tween is reluctant to try clothes on, a stylist can help them discover what works for them. It’s money and time well spent. Your tween may learn a thing or two about putting outfits together which is actually a learned skill that even some adults struggle with.

Where have you gone to buy clothes for your tween girl?

Disclosure: There are affiliate links on this post. Should you choose to purchase an item, I will receive a small commission at no extra cost. 

Achievable Tasks You Can Do At Home While In Isolation

Call me crazy, but I thought home isolation would give me more time to get some things done around the home.

However with motivations low, I haven’t done as much as I had thought.

Nevertheless, the tasks I did complete were not time-consuming and are certainly achievable with a small amount of time.

12 Achievable Tasks You Can Do At Home While in Isolation

1. Wash makeup brushes

When was the last time you washed your makeup brushes? They should be washed once every month. I use shampoo to clean mine and allow the bristles to dry overnight. Never submerge the brush into a glass of water. Use the palm of your hand to wash your brushes.

2. Declutter old makeup

I’m prone to keeping old, empty concealers and foundation bottles in my makeup bag. Get rid of old makeup and empty bottles. This makes it easy to see what you do have, when you need it.

go through makeup and dispose of old makeup

3. Sort out undies drawer

I have a drawer for all my delicates. Fold them and get rid of any underwear that no longer fits or has no elastic.

4. Cull shoe collection

Sort out shoes and check the heels and toes to see if they have holes or too much wear. Place the remaining shoes on a rack to keep them organised. Get boots resoled if needed.

5. Stock take toiletry bag

I always have a fully stocked toiletry bag with essentials. Now is the time to go through any empty bottles and make a list of items to keep your bag stocked.

6. Clean out handbag

Remove everything from your handbag and dispose of old receipts and rubbish. Put back what is only essential.

7. Sort one drawer at a time

If you have drawers of clothes, just do one drawer at a time instead of the whole chest at once.

I removed items from one drawer and organised my jewellery using a Kmart organiser. It’s easy to grab at a glance.

jewellery organise drawer

8. Clean full length mirror

My girls love to kiss my full length mirror. Give it a thorough clean with window cleaner or a spray of vinegar and a citrus essential oil.

9. Organise vanity cupboard

This task can be overwhelming, but it feels so good once it’s done. Get rid of beauty products you don’t intend to use and use clear trays to sort like for like products.

10. Turn around all the hangers in your wardrobe

You could remove all your clothes and declutter your wardrobe… or you could turn all the hangers around the opposite way. After a year, you will see which hangers are still facing the opposite way. You know these are the pieces you don’t wear often and can be sold or donated.

11. Cull scarf collection

The same rule for your clothes can apply to your scarf collection. I use a scarf holder to hold my scarves as I own many. To work out which scarves you wear the most, place a worn scarf on a coat hanger. After winter, the remaining scarves on the holder can be donated.

12. Organise jewellery

Use organisers to sort jewellery into groups. This will make it easy for locating a piece when you need it.

I Got a New Stud Earring Holder

Have you culled and decluttered while isolated at home?

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